In previous blogs, we at SecretBody have discussed the different aspects of BDSM, including Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism, and of course Bondage & Discipline. These blogs offer you a solid foundation in the fascinating world of BDSM. Today, we are going one step further and diving deeper into the world of bondage. Are you curious about different bondage techniques and BDSM examples? We have everything you need!
What is bondage?
Bondage is all about restraining or tying up your partner. While the word ‘bondage’ can sound intimidating to some, it doesn’t have to be complex. Bondage is a broad field that ranges from simple handcuffs to more advanced techniques such as rope bondage. The great thing is that there is always something new to discover, especially when you start with bondage for beginners!
It is crucial to communicate well about your boundaries and agree on a safe word beforehand. Bondage can be intense and requires a lot of trust from both parties. Make clear agreements beforehand to keep it safe, sensible and consensual. Don't forget to always have a pair of scissors at hand when working with bondage tape or rope, so that you can quickly free your partner if necessary.
Are you ready to learn more? Let's explore some bondage techniques together.
Bondage examples
Handcuffs
One of the most accessible options is handcuffing. Handcuffs are perfect for this, but you can also improvise with items such as ties or silk scarves. Handcuffs offer many possibilities: you can tie your partner in different positions or even attach them to a bed or object. Start with simple positions and vary as you gain more experience. Our tip: make sure you keep the keys safe! 😉
Bondage tape
Bondage tape is a great, beginner-friendly option. This tape offers countless possibilities, from binding wrists or ankles to completely wrapping your partner. Bondage tape only sticks to itself and not to the skin, making it safe and painless to remove.
Bondage rope
Bondage rope is the most versatile tool in bondage. It offers countless possibilities and comes in different materials, lengths and colors. For beginners, we recommend cotton rope because it is soft and smooth, allowing you to focus on restriction without causing discomfort.
If you are new to using bondage rope, it is important to practice and learn the correct techniques. A good rule of thumb: make sure the rope is not pinching by putting two fingers under it. If this is easy, then the blood circulation is good.
For advanced players, hemp rope is an interesting option. Many experienced riggers use hemp rope for Shibari, a Japanese bondage art that focuses on aesthetic knots and patterns. Shibari is complex and requires a lot of practice. For those who are serious about learning Shibari, we recommend a workshop or course so that you can practice the art safely.
Now that you have a little more knowledge about bondage and BDSM techniques, you can get started! Do some research beforehand about the techniques you want to try. Communication is always the most important aspect of BDSM. Talk to your partner about what appeals to you and what positions work best for you. If you want to experiment with rope, practice in a relaxed setting first. This will help you feel confident when it comes time to tie up your partner in an erotic setting, and will increase the trust between you.
Above all, enjoy this adventure and the intimacy it brings
